The Career Auntie

Why Do You Want to Make it in Life?

A thought similar to this crossed my mind as I got ready to spend some quality time with my brazier, thanks to loadshedding.

This thought led to some introspection, and I realised that it is important for each of us to determine the motivation for our drive. When we are very clear about the why, it helps us make better decisions before, during and after we โ€˜make itโ€™. While some reasons for peoples’ respective drives may be similar, others may vary from one person to another. Below are some reasons for your personal reflection:

๐Ÿ. ๐…๐ข๐ง๐š๐ง๐œ๐ข๐š๐ฅ ๐’๐ž๐œ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ: Career success often brings with it wealth and financial stability, which provide comfort, luxury, and the ability to afford things one would like.

๐Ÿ. ๐๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐‹๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž: A personโ€™s overall wellbeing and better quality of life (including access to better healthcare, education, living conditions, nutrition etc) is made possible with solid financial success.

๐Ÿ‘. ๐๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ ๐…๐ฎ๐ฅ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ: For some people, achievement of career success is about self-validation and fulfills personal ambitions, which ultimately brings about a sense of satisfaction.

๐Ÿ’. ๐’๐ญ๐š๐ญ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐‘๐ž๐œ๐จ๐ ๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง: Elevation of social status through career success can bring recognition from others, thereby boosting one’s self-esteem and sense of accomplishment.

๐Ÿ“. ๐๐จ๐ฐ๐ž๐ซ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ˆ๐ง๐Ÿ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ž: Success can grant power to make decisions, influence others, and have control over situations, which can be incredibly appealing for a number of individuals.

๐Ÿ”. ๐‚๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ž๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ƒ๐ซ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž: For those who are inherently competitive, the desire for success may be fueled by the need to prove their superiority or to outperform others.

๐Ÿ•. ๐•๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐š๐ง๐ ๐€๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ฏ๐š๐ฅ: Individuals who were told they would never make it may use that negative feedback as motivation to prove the naysayers wrong. This is because career success often garners admiration and approval from peers, family, and society, thus fulfilling the need for external validation and acceptance.

๐Ÿ–. ๐“๐จ ๐๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ค ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐‚๐ฒ๐œ๐ฅ๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐…๐š๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ญ๐ฒ: When you are the one with the passion and responsibility to break the cycle of family poverty that has plagued your clan for generations, the drive is beyond personal comfort. Individuals in this position need both hard work and the God-factor. Hard work

will take you up to a certain threshold, but the God-factor is the one that shatters ceilings of limitation and short-lived success that hard work can not.

Which of these motivators speaks to your personal situation?

– ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐‚๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ž๐ซ ๐€๐ฎ๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ž โ€“